From: owner-ammf-digest@smoe.org (alt.music.moxy-fruvous digest) To: ammf-digest@smoe.org Subject: alt.music.moxy-fruvous digest V4 #326 Reply-To: ammf@fruvous.com Sender: owner-ammf-digest@smoe.org Errors-To: owner-ammf-digest@smoe.org Precedence: bulk alt.music.moxy-fruvous digest Wednesday, August 2 2000 Volume 04 : Number 326 Today's Subjects: ----------------- 11/13/97 XPN AM Show? [gingee@my-deja.com] Re: Ghosts of Fruvous; obsessions [MJ ] Re: Ghosts of Fruvous; obsessions [SugarFly26@aol.com] Re: Ghosts of Fruvous; obsessions ["A.J. LoCicero" ] ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 01 Aug 2000 20:58:53 GMT From: gingee@my-deja.com Subject: 11/13/97 XPN AM Show? Greetings, All! I'm hoping there's a kind soul who can help me out. I used to have a copy of the subject Fruvous appearance on WXPN's Morning Show...until the tape broke. If you've got a copy and would be willing to do a trade, I'd be very grateful. Please email me and I'll forward my MF tape list for your perusal. Thanks! Cheers! gingee Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/ Before you buy. ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 01 Aug 2000 17:03:46 -0400 From: MJ Subject: Re: Ghosts of Fruvous; obsessions Um, 3 things in response to myself: 1) sorry i sent this to you as well AJ; must've hit reply to all by accident. 2) hence, I tried to stop myself from doing that, but too late, it got sent twice and to AJ as well. 3) I just discovered that my post was horribly incoherent. But, I think enough has been said, so I'll just let whatever I said wither away in cyberspace to die on its own. ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Aug 2000 17:25:43 EDT From: SugarFly26@aol.com Subject: Re: Ghosts of Fruvous; obsessions <> Huh? I don't quite think I get these sentences.If you're saying after spending $120-ish on a band and since you do they should probably be more Fruvous-like, I disagree. For one thing, a band with a lot of fans would have a really hard time hanging around after a show like Fruvous does, simply because there *are* so many fans. And spending money on them wouldn't give special privileges like that. The $120-ish goes to concerts and cds and maybe a tshirt (i'm assuming) so the only responsibility they have to you is to make sure you get that tshirt and that cd, and they put on that concert that you paid for. - ------------> Ln ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 01 Aug 2000 21:22:02 GMT From: "A.J. LoCicero" Subject: Re: Ghosts of Fruvous; obsessions Spin0za1 wrote: > The fact that I was at all dissapointed by Jian is one of the reasons I'm so > terrified of the way I feel... I shouldn't have any sense of entitlement to > Jian's attention... or anyone's really. I should be and always am eternally > grateful for every moment I have with them. > > Meanwhile I've just shared something with you that I was only just able to > admit to myself the moment before I wrote the initial post... and you choose to > just pick out the tiny bit to criticize me. Gella, I for one would not criticize the process that you are going through. You've admitted that you feel like you are obsessed and you are trying to find a more balanced perspective. Nobody here is going to fault you for that. In fact I say Bravo! Keep it up! Let me know if I can help in any way. I found nothing whatever offensive about your post. I didn't read you as feeling entitled, only kind of bummed because you didn't get that bit of attention from Jian. How many of us can say that we haven't felt that way at one time or another when someone whom we like/admire/have a crush on fails to notice us? That is normal for someone in your position. I don't think people picked out one bit to criticize you. Rather they replied to Sally who had picked that one bit to express sympathy about. What I think people were questioning/criticizing about Sally's post is that she sounded a little too much like crossing a line to some people I think. From her phraseology it seemed like she sort of expected more from Jian, thus drawing the usual cautions from the usual suspects. > I think I'm just not going to post here anymore. That is of course up to you, But I for one actually look forward to many of your posts and so I would hope that you will stick around. I'm sorry if anything I personally said offended. I was intending to be funny rather than mean. A.J. - -- _____ _ / ____(_) | | _ ___ ___ _ __ ___ | | | |/ __/ _ \ '__/ _ \ | |____| | (_| __/ | | (_) | ICQ: 13117113 \_____|_|\___\___|_| \___/ @wwnet.com AIM: locicero ------------------------------ End of alt.music.moxy-fruvous digest V4 #326 ********************************************