I was waiting to see how people would react to what I said.  This list 
has gotten boring lately.

What I meant was, if you have a 7.0 magnitude earthquake in a very 
populous and poor country like Haiti, I'm not surprised to hear such 
figures like 100,000 dead.  I used to work with someone from Haiti, and 
got to know how bad off that country was.  Saddened yes, stunned no.

And while I said I was stunned by Jay's death, I never said I was 
saddened by it. :)

- Mark