Stewart, Ok....but there's a real flip side to this phenomenon. Maybe I just see a lot of this having spent the last 15+ years in a couple of towns on the so-called 'Hippie Hub' of the west coast. Here's the deal - I went and saw Tegan and Sara do an in-store here in Eugene, OR a few months ago - and while the place was packed, the audience consisted almost entirely of those who identify with lesbian culture, not outsiders or fascintated men. The sisters did a great in-store and have a very droll sisterly (not lesbian) stage presence that serves them well. They were sharp, very sarcastic and quick-witted - all qualities I do have a fetish for :). The tunes were good and I was honestly heartened to see long lines of folks buying the album immediately after their set. But for me - this has been a real and disappointing issue over the years. Why is some music championed in the Lilith Fair and "Women's Music" world, while other great music is ignored: Tori Amos is heralded while Kate Bush is largely ignored. We get Indigo Girls, Sara McLachlan, Ferron, etc., but no Rickie Lee Jones, no Damone, no Nico, Cardigans, Bobbie Gentry, Kirsty MacColl and on and on. So I guess for me, the problem isn't just guys who are fascinated only by sexual orientation, but so-called "women's music" that seems more preoccupied with sexual politics (and political correctness) than with music in the first place. Ok, maybe that's a can of worms, I realize - but it's something that has really bugged me over the years. So even if you set me straight, I'm probably gonna feel better about this when it's over. -craig -----Original Message----- From: audities-owner@smoe.org [mailto:audities-owner@smoe.org] On Behalf Of Stewart Mason Sent: Wednesday, December 29, 2004 10:27 AM To: audities@smoe.org Subject: Re: Somebody school me everywhere), and given that the sisters' sexual orientation is invariably mentioned in the very first sentence of every one of these reviews that I've seen, I have to assume that at least part of what's going on here is the bizarre fascination with lesbians that *some* men exhibit. In case that's not clear enough, let me reiterate that it was that "ooh, look, lesbians!" mentality that I was mocking, not Tegan and Sara themselves. S