~~~~yipes! three kids.  that's not exactly what i
meant. i'm 29, and i don't plan on having kids. i'm
way too selfish (reason #231), and no, i'm not
changing my mind...  what i meant was maybe i'm
missing something in the dynamic of a married
relationship and the scheduling of free time/going to
shows/working one's musical taste into things, etc.

and no one ever addressed the deal about going to a
show with another friend (instead of going to a show
by yourself, if that's a stumbling block). it just
seems sort of weird to go to a show if you positively
are struggling through it cause you are turned off by
the artist.  i mean if you really love someone, do you
want to have them sit there gritting their teeth??

i want someone at the cubs game with me who truly
enjoys ball..they don't have to like the *cubs*, in
fact, if they don't, it will be more fun...but
music...well, that's a little different...

jocelyn


--- Greg York <yorkgreg@hotmail.com> wrote:
> >jocelyn wrote:
> 
> >~~~~i'm curious about this.... i AM single so maybe
> >i'm missing something
> 
> Well, you are missing the joy of 3 school-aged
> children, 3 different soccer 
> teams, music lessons 2X/week, a spouse finishing her
> degree at night school, 
> etc. etc.  But when I say joy, I really do mean
> that...
> 
> So, what free time we can find, we like to spend
> together.  But it's not a 
> "mandate".  For instance, I got comped on 2 tix to
> Kenny Chesney 
> yesterday...took them home to the wife last night
> and said "invite a friend, 
> have a good time..".  Sometimes you just have to
> know when a little seperate 
> time is needed...
> greg
> 
>
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